...I think she should stay home. She said pretty plainly they're not a proper couple, and he didn't come to Japan for her. Under those circumstances, and without the clarification she seems to seek, I think anyone going abroad who seeks more than a little boom-boom is setting themselves up for a heartbreak. No job, no guarantees, and a guy who she thinks is lying to her.
BTW: I finally tried www.rikai.com -- made sorting through several of the kanji combos much easier. Smart dude who wrote that thing.