Get NAKED! :-)
June 11 2001 at 3:31 PM

Response to why do you like japanese women?

That will get his attention!! I guarantee it!!

Seriously, If you wanna knock this guy's socks off and "show your fascination as (a) Japanese" Babe, I have one word for you.......KIMONO!!!

I know they are damn expensive and a pain to put on, but if you can find a reason to go to a special event/festival with him wearing a kimono (or a yukata), DO IT! IF he has any interest in Japanese things at all, he will be most impressed. If he isn't impressed, dump him...he isn't a Young Dude, IMHO.

I agree with Magicpants in that the typical Japanese 'shyness' is cute, but I also agree with JD in that you should say what you want from him. See the Dude, Nanpa the Dude!!

I have just met a J-babe who is doing EXACTLY what you should try doing CK.... Last week, a co-worker gave me a note. It was given to her by one of her students, who I also teach. The note was from the girl's private Math/English tutor. She was direct and said she wanted to be my friend, and practice her English. If she had said "I wanna meet a foreigner, teach me English, please." I probably would have blew her off. I digress...

I was game, figuring "What the hell, she can't be any worse than Oscar's charity project," I met last Tuesday and........

damn...! DAMN!! DDDDDDDAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!! She is a MAJOR BABE!! She looks a lot like the Babe in the TV commercial here in Japan where the girl is dressed like one of the 3 Musketeers. (Anyone now the name of this J-girl?) After rolling my tongue back into my mouth and wiping up the drool, we proceded to have a great time! I invited her to an izekaya party that was held last Friday. At the end of the evening, she asked me when we could meet next time. A BRILLIANT move on her part . She is very "Japanese" in her manners, the way she acts, the way she dresses (Sexy and smart! No fake kinpatsu and stupid looking shoes with 12 inch soles), but she still has the confidence to assert herself. This is how you should be with the guy you like, C-Kitty....a 'traditional' Japanese girl with a bit* of Western directness to say clearly what you want! (*Not too much, it is a turn off. If it wasn't, this site wouldn't be here!!)

Good Luck and welcome to the Elite Ranks of the Young Dude-ettes!!!

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