|Bro, you know what I'd do - boku wa anata dattara.. I'd just kiss her mate. It sounds like she's just waiting for you to make the first move. Girls (esp J girls) never initiate it. It goes against their culture, they don't won't people to think they're sluts. The next time your alone with her in an apartment or whatever (Big Wheel's good), and she's sitting next to you, just put your arms around her, and do it quickly, and see how she reacts. If she looks shocked or hurls or something, then you know it ain't gonna happen, and never will probably. But I'm willing to bet my grand-ma that she doesn't. Nothing wrong with a kiss, just don't slip her the tongue first time and it'll be cool. Sure you'll be nervous as hell, but it always starts that way. Be strong and let those male hormones take the driver's seat for a minute. Seriously dude, nothing makes peoples minds up quicker than a strong sign of physical affection like a kiss. I'm pretty sure she knows by now that you're not just trying to get into her knickers. |
Now's the time man..you know it..get the girl.
Because you never know that some hunky guy might come along when you're gone, and then you're gonna feel like a shit for not trying hard enough. And that girls thinking, ah well, since No Name never kissed me then I guess I'm single so I may aswell date this guy. Next thing you know it's wedding invitations dude.
And we don't want that.
Anyway, if it doesn't work out, you move onto the next girl. There's no such thing as 'friendship' between sex's anyhow.. Didn't you watch when Harry met Sally. Every guy who pretends to be friends with a girl really just imagines that one day he'll get her into the sack, and that's his sustenance for the relationship.