June 12 2001 at 3:58 AM
Response to Aliens built the pyramids, stress, and jgirls...
|"Build your cities under Vesuvius! Sail your ships into uncharted seas!"|
Go to Japan, if that is what you really want to do.
There are hundreds of thousands of people you can fall in love with on this great planet, at worst this is a light estimate, so don't let one love prevent you from finding others. At least that's how I feel.
You have to swallow is your jealousy. If you can accept you current gf sleeping with other guys then you have no reason NOT to go to Japan. Why?
IF you can accept that she'll bang other dudes then you will beable to love her again, love her after your trip to Japan. Sure it will take time, she may not want to see you right away, but if you are a dude no river is to wide. What I'm saying is that if your mutual love is made to last and have little kiddies spring from it then a year or two of separation, mentally, physically and emotionally, will not hamper that. Go your separate ways for the time being, make the break absolute within yourself and try greener pastures. If your love is the kind Shakespeare wrote about then you'll beable to pick up 2 or 3 years later as if not a day went by. Think of the pending debauchery in Japan as a test of your love for her rather then reason never to see her again. At the end of the day what do you want, a love untested built on a wicker foundation or a love forged in fire and pain that knows no suffering to great. Maybe the bar is to high but at least you can say you took a jump.